If you see a guy on his back with the door open, it means he's a top, looking for someone to fuck.Ĭheck out the dark rooms, if that's your thing, because there is often action happening there and it can be a bit of a free-for-all (again, if that's your thing). If you see a guy on his stomach with the door open, it means he's a bottom ready to get fucked. There will be private rooms, essentially like a little motel, and some people will keep their doors closed while others will leave them open, which signals you're welcome to walk in. There should be common areas like weight rooms, tv/porn rooms, communal showers, hot tubs, saunas, dark rooms, etc. If you don't want this, just gently move their hand away or say "no thanks." No need to make a big scene, most people will respect that boundary immediately. If they see you and someone else getting it on in a public place, they may just try to join in without asking. But, because it's a bathhouse, people will almost certainly touch you without asking first.
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Obviously, you never have to do anything with anyone that you don't want to, and you are free to end any interaction you choose, at any time, for whatever reason. Or literally just start groping each other and making out wherever you are-it's a bathhouse, that's encouraged.īe aware that because it's a bathhouse, the normal standards of consent are a bit different. If you guys click, see if one of you has a room you can go back to. Don't let the conversation get too casual-most people are at a bathhouse to get physical with someone and getting too chatty can ruin the mood. Initiate some physical contact (or just say hello if you're nervous). If they're returning it, it's a good sign that they're interested in more. If they do, see if they're returning eye contact or avoiding it. Find a place that feels comfortable to you (sauna or hot tub is usually a good choice) and just relax. They'll buzz you through, you go find your locker or your room, get naked, put your towel on and then.wander around. You'll have the option to rent a room or a locker. They will probably check your bag for drugs or alcohol. That being said, Thurs/Fri/Sat nights tend to be reliably busy no matter which sauna/bathhouse you are going to. I've also had lots of fun on weekend afternoons. The after-work crowd is different from who you see late at night on a weekend after the bars let out. The type of people will also vary massively depending on the time of day. Some bathhouses have themed nights/days to try to attract certain crowds (bears, college guys, people looking to bareback, folks who like it to be completely dark, etc.) so it's worth checking the sauna ahead of time to see if they have times when you might be interested in going. It'd be easy to say "just unattractive guys" or "just guys with body type" or "just ethnicity" but it really does attract all types. I really wanna know what kinda guys go there.Īll types. And if you wind up enjoying yourself.well welcome to the funhouse!
If it winds up not being for you.you've discovered something about yourself! Now you know and never need to wonder or go back. That is the fun part of a bathhouse-you never quite know what you're in for. But that's not to say you won't also get checked out, propositioned by a hot guy, and have some insane group fun.
Oh, probably all three in the span of about 20 minutes. Saturday night at The Stable is B.U.T.T.S night - Bears Under The Tropical Sun.Or am I just gonna get rejected, disgusted, or groped? The Stable caters to a more levi/leather crowd and has won Best Theme Night - Underwear Tuesday for two years running. Scandals "Brother Bar" is The Stable located just 3 blocks away. Our newest edition, NELLIE'S MERCHANTILE, selling all kinds of stuff. Three bars, huge outdoor patio, sports room, and large dance floor and always true to our roots. The last Sunday of the month features "Gospel Jubilee" - a show celebrating ole fashioned southern gospel music Free dance lessons Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday Karaoke on Sunday starting at 9pm.
All mixed drinks are 2oz pours and we have frozen drinks on the patio made with real fruit. Happy hour runs from Noon-9pm Monday-Saturday and open to close Sunday. Located in the heart of Gay Fort Lauderdale (Wilton Manors), Scandals Saloon is known as the friendliest bar with a down home atmoshpere and 'just the cutest and friendliest bartenders' you will ever come across. Florida's Largest Gay Country/Western Nightclub.